Sunday, 31 July 2016

The wait is over ! PART 1


Aah I am back at this place after more than an year. Had never imagined that will get Goosebumps when I will read my earlier posts. A lot has changed since January 2015. From being a first year rookie to being called as ‘Sir’ , the 1.5 years has shown me a glimpse for the years ahead. A time probably where I had made more friends than I lost (probably I lost none, a remarkable achievement considering the past).The fast moving life doesn’t give you time to reflect back in time but today I have got a chance to reflect back on what all I have gone through in the past year.

VANIJYA 2015
My first college fest (academic or cultural) and I had the opportunity to be in the organising team. The team being the best in the college (so getting into the team itself was very satisfying) added upto the expectations. We all did fairly well in organising the event and it was a success as evident by the quality of events and footfall. The heartiest thing to be seen for me was how everyone helped each other and contributed towards the success of the event. The teamwork was the foundation of the society and it was good to see it coming that well. But for me one thing that will always be edged in my memory of this event will be the chance to be the auctioneer at an event where I wasn’t supposed to do.This out of turn gesture by my team head Aman (name changed), who next year went on to become the president of the society, had earned him a respect above everyone in the society. Many can argue that I must have got this chance because none of the seniors would have agreed to do the auctioneer role but I being a firm believer of ‘What you sough is what you reap’ knew that somewhere it was the hardwork I put in before the event that had landed me at this place. My confidence level at that time was sky high. I did a mistake in my initial round but the confidence in me during that time helped me to overcome that and deep inside I told myself that CHIRAG YOUR HARDWORK HAS PAID OFF. And for this the credit goes to Aman for showing faith in me.

FIRST YEAR ENDS
1 year = 365 days is what my teachers told me in school but the 1 year in college seemed like it had just 100 days. The time flew by. I was soon going to become a senior, Huhh time travels faster than light. The second semester got over and as usual we all partied after the last exam as if we had studied rigorously for them :P (thanks to SHIVDAS and SONS – a book which every DU student knows) but the bigger battle had just started for me.

My IPCC attempt was now less than a year away and I was in full coaching mode. Leaving home early (8 AM) for college attending 2 lectures (I love being in the college), leaving college early (10:30 AM) to attend my class 10 kms away (thanks to metro it never seemed 10 kms until I checked in Google maps) and then attending it for 4.5 hours with a break of hardly 15 minutes. Then leaving for the second class as soon as the first got over (generally around 4:15 PM) and changing 3 metros to reach a place outside which one of the most inspiring person sells tea ! (Mr. Laxman Rao, MA in Hindi Delhi University is the author of over 24 books successfully selling on Amazon and Flipkart) . I used to reach a good 45 minutes before the class timings (not because I like being everywhere well before time but because I had no other place to go (can’t go back home as it would take a lot of time)). The 45 minutes were utilised for eating my snacks which mum had prepared early morning fully dishearteningly (not because she didn’t want to cook or she was lazy to wake up, well she is the earliest riser in our house, but because she didn’t want me to eat cold food with possible chances of spoilage by the time I used to eat it. But she didn’t have any other option as daily eating from street vendors could be more hazardous. Moms can never be satisfied until and unless they offer you hot home cooked food). After attending the class I used to take the long travel back to home (changing 3 metros is itself a testimony to it). Finally reaching home at 9:30 PM seemed like I have reached heaven. A day lasting over 12 hours , involving travelling to different parts of delhi by public conveyance and carrying weight as if I am going to represent India in Olympics next time was my routine for 3 days in a week(well the other 4 consisted only the first class).
What I just described is the schedule of almost all CA aspirants (talking about IPCC level only).
To be honest it does scare a hell out of a person when he firsts read into this but trust me this is the time when I got evolved as a person. Away from your parents for over half a day, wandering in different parts of the city in public transport, tackling the small problems on your own, managing your college studies and assignments while on the move, controlling yourself for the delicious food items you come across - makes you grow as a person, makes you a tough person, makes you feel responsible, shows you what hardwork is called and believe it or not I enjoyed every bit of it. Had it been not for this schedule I would have not been such an independent person that I am today.
The coachings went about every month till February.
Managing the society work along with coachings was becoming difficult, the fact that I couldn’t have delegated much of the work so that made it even tougher. Attending calls while in classes and managing the work from there was a bit disturbing but thanks to my friends (I got some really good friends there which I didn’t expect) I was able to cover up.  

THE TURNING POINT
Sitting in my law class I got the surprise of the year. I was appointed as the head of the Entrepreneurship Cell. My friend called me to inform this and I ignored it stating it to be one of the pranks pulled on me. When I reached home in the evening I checked the results (interview results for entry in the commerce society) and found my name as the head. I literally cross checked that 10 times because it was one thing I least expected. At first place I hadn’t applied for the post and secondly I wasn’t even a member last time. Again the theory of hardwork held well over here. This was a huge jump for me, from a volunteer a few months back I was part of the core team now!
The following day when I met the presi he bestowed a lot of confidence on me and was sure that I could take the cell to a higher level. That filled me with an unmatchable confidence level. I started chalking out plans from day 1 itself (formal meetings were not officially called yet). Call it the excitement level or the responsibility I did not waste a single day till 31st August (first meeting day and incidentally my birthday)

31st August – A special day indeed. It was my 19th this time around, last year I celebrated my 18th with a great pomp n show but I expected this to be a very normal one. But I was in for a big surprise in the meeting. All my fellow colleagues had arranged for a cake. The gesture shown by all of them literally made me cry in joy. It was just the moment to savour for the coming years. This first meeting till date remains my best meeting I have attended.

E-TALK
We (Me and my e cell team) had to make a report on our plans for the future and what events we are going to organise this semester. One event I always wanted to conduct was a talk show type wherein the entrepreneurs of the start-up world will tell their inspiring stories. There were some who were against this idea as this hasn’t happened in the college earlier but I was adamant to the fact that I want this to happen and if possible increase the reputation of Hansraj further. Amidst concerns being raised by some members over the event the presi gave the nod for the event. Initially, we were slow on getting the famous personalities as we had no clue how to go about it. We tried to find the best possible contacts of the officials and dealt accordingly but we weren’t getting any positives from there. 1-2 weeks had been passed since the first meeting and we weren’t able to find a single panellist (E-Talk was a panel discussion). There were concerns raised by few members whether we will be able to arrange the required personnel. But these concerns further strengthened our spirits and we decided to randomly visit the start-up offices requesting them to come to the college for such event. We got a mixed response but were able to tap the CFO of yatra.com Mr. Alok Vaish (a Hans Raj alumnus) and also we were able to build few connections for future purpose. Although the day was a fruitful one but the evening proved to be a disaster as my one silly mistake forced us to be caught in Gurgaon for extra 4-5 hours. But as we say all is well that ends well !
Finally with the help of our visits to offices and with the help of seniors working in the start-ups we were able to manage 3 good panellists.  We had lost few of the panellists just because we wanted high profile personalities. I was against this ideology but the senior members were of the view that we want to do something big. It’s a debatable point since everyone will have a view of their own. We had a ready panellist but we refused it as she was the founder of a newly launched start-up. I was very upset over losing a panellist in such a way and had a few arguments related to this. But leaving this behind we focused on the task on hand. Now with panellists having been finalised we started preparing the itinerary for the event and the questions which we will ask.
Another challenge we faced was the requirement of a moderator who would put up the questions to the guests. We contacted for correspondents of some business magazines and newspapers but due to the paucity of funds we couldn’t afford them so it had to be one  of us who had to take this responsibility. I personally didn’t want to take up this responsibility (Firstly I was the head so I had to manage the whole event, secondly had no experience of hosting such an event and I wanted a third year to take up this responsibility.) I was adamant for a third year hosting this but the presi  wanted to have a first or a second year for it. I didn’t like the idea that time but post event I was happy tat we stick to it. It was a first year who hosted it. It wasn’t the perfect hosting but yes a very good one as I had expected (4-5 days before the event was the day when I had scolded this person who hosted the talk and it was the first time I was talking tpo a society member in such pitch, it must have been scary for that guy, I would have left the society If I had to face such a wrath but he stuck to it and delivered an excellent performance- one which raised his bar in the society) .

19th October

With all the enthusiasm, zeal, arguments, attractive offers and above all the hardwork put in the day has come for the action. We expected to start by 12:30 The panellists had arrived and all preparations had been done but only one thing was missing and that was AUDIENCE (imagine an audi of capacity if 200-250 people being filled by only 50 people). The site was heart breakening to the least. For a minute I was blank, I was like now what. It wasn’t just my societys stake at hand but colleges too and exactly reverse was happening of what I had thought. We left repenting for another day and thought what we could do the best at this stage. We started calling our friends in hostel, sitting in canteen, attending classes (we had to convince a teacher to cancel her class and make students sit for the event). We literally begged in front of the strangers at LP to come and attend the talk. We had to kick-start things as the present audience was getting restless. We managed to half fill the audi. There were various reasons for the low attendance : the fact that date was mid October so many students had left for their hometowns and that was a setback for us, the fact that we were not able to get any other date and a similar event was held before our event and personal promotion was lacking. Anyways these shortcomings are something which we thought in hindsight only. But the people who attended the session were full of praises for the session. We had managed to keep the quality at the highest level. It was a great learning curve for me as it was one event I had envisioned and to see it becoming successful (purely on the quality side) was satisfactory.

Sunday, 4 January 2015

A test of my patience


The weekend did not shape quite well , like most of mine (I seriously hate weekends at least when I dont have something to study related to my syllabus). 

With the hope of affirmation of sponsorship of fest the rainy saturday morning greeted me. But unlike other times I was made to contact another person (This meant that I had to again establish a contact with him and explain all the things from begining). I just hate this stuff but for a challenge it was a test of patience for me.   Before this I had had chats with other  companies and all of them either spontaneously said NO or within a  reasonable time I got a response but this time around I was made to wait for a week but still I had to contact someone else. Ok ,  it was a test ,as it was new for me and I think I had passed it with good marks because I didn't panic and didn't even leave the task at hand. So a small victory for me(Obviously a bigger one would be to secure a sponsorship for my department )
   
Patience is a quality I have always rued for not being in me. If you want to bet your life on someones patience I would be the last. I preach my mates about this but I  hardly followed as my anger has always taken control of most of the situations(till now I had always heated arguments with my family members so all this anger stuff at home only). It was not as if I would intentionally shout but whenever I did I always used to rebuke myself because this is one thing I would like to change in myself. I have succeeded also but the end is far away. 

During all this I completely forgot that college was going to reopen from the next week and I had not sorted out my bag and other stuff. But I missed my college frankly speaking   I am in first year only but everything about my college attracts me towards it , there is something in its environment which is enjoyable.  Maybe friends , college repo dont know but it definitely has a vibrant aura which is appealing for me. So feeling of excitement an d nervousness (I am always nervous at a new session beginning) also adds some flavours in my weekend emotions. 

 Moving on two things happened over the  three days which made me both happy and sad. 
First was the song I heard after a long time. Its the song which I think has a lot deeper meaning but for that deeper meaning you dont need a specialist. The words itself are very clear . Let me just write the para of it which makes me love it so much 
HASTE HASTE KAT JAAYE RASTE 
ZINDAGI YU HI CHALTI RAHE
KHUSHI MILE YA GAM
ZINDAGI CHAHE CHALTI RAHE 

I really love this song on the basis of its sheer lyrics. So this definitely brought a smile on my face as this was the song which influenced me as a person a lot.

Second was , a boy playing badminton with his mother. It might be a bit absurd but it just brought back one of my favourite memories of childhood and that was playing at night with friends and family. 
I used to relish that time when I used to play with my mother and father as I thought through this I am able to bring joy in their life by bringing them back to their childhood and obviously learning a few tricks from them (especially my father , he was or rather is a master at badminton and cricket)  

This sudden flashback  brought twin emotions  - a sense of joy and sadness (on the thought that when it will happen again)  Its not that there are internal problems in the family but shift in priorities especially from my side. Studies have lowered  the amount of playing time but still I could have found out time for this. I did not utilise the holidays to the fullest once again. 

So this feeling brought an end to a rather ordinary weekend for me. 

But with the hope that next day always brings fresh challenges and opportunities to be happy and sad both I enter into the first monday of this year.

A THOUGHT : Life gives us ample opportunities to succeed but they are hidden amidst our failures. We have to just find out them like a hide and seek game because behind every success story there is an unheard failure story. So dont be afraid of failures as no will care about it but listen to your success only  :)

Friday, 2 January 2015

A happening start to the year


The weekend did not shape quite well , like most of mine (I seriously hate weekends at least when I dont have something to study related to my syllabus). 

With the hope of affirmation of sponsorship of fest the rainy saturday morning greeted me. But unlike other times I was made to contact another person (This meant that I had to again establish a contact with him and explain all the things from begining). I just hate this stuff but for a challenge it was a test of patience for me.   Before this I had had chats with other  companies and all of them either spontaneously said NO or within a  reasonable time I got a response but this time around I was made to wait for a week but still I had to contact someone else. Ok ,  it was a test ,as it was new for me and I think I had passed it with good marks because I didn't panic and didn't even leave the task at hand. So a small victory for me(Obviously a bigger one would be to secure a sponsorship for my department )
   
Patience is a quality I have always rued for not being in me. If you want to bet your life on someones patience I would be the last. I preach my mates about this but I  hardly followed as my anger has always taken control of most of the situations(till now I had always heated arguments with my family members so all this anger stuff at home only). It was not as if I would intentionally shout but whenever I did I always used to rebuke myself because this is one thing I would like to change in myself. I have succeeded also but the end is far away. 

During all this I completely forgot that college was going to reopen from the next week and I had not sorted out my bag and other stuff. But I missed my college frankly speaking   I am in first year only but everything about my college attracts me towards it , there is something in its environment which is enjoyable.  Maybe friends , college repo dont know but it definitely has a vibrant aura which is appealing for me. So feeling of excitement an d nervousness (I am always nervous at a new session beginning) also adds some flavours in my weekend emotions. 

 Moving on two things happened over the  three days which made me both happy and sad. 
First was the song I heard after a long time. Its the song which I think has a lot deeper meaning but for that deeper meaning you dont need a specialist. The words itself are very clear . Let me just write the para of it which makes me love it so much 
HASTE HASTE KAT JAAYE RASTE 
ZINDAGI YU HI CHALTI RAHE
KHUSHI MILE YA GAM
BADALENGE NA HUM DUNIYA
CHAHE BADALTI RAHE

I really love this song on the basis of its sheer lyrics. So this definitely brought a smile on my face as this was the song which influenced me as a person a lot.

Second was , a boy playing badminton with his mother. It might be a bit absurd but it just brought back one of my favourite memories of childhood and that was playing at night with friends and family. 
I used to relish that time when I used to play with my mother and father as I thought through this I am able to bring joy in their life by bringing them back to their childhood and obviously learning a few tricks from them (especially my father , he was or rather is a master at badminton and cricket)  

This sudden flashback  brought twin emotions  - a sense of joy and sadness (on the thought that when it will happen again)  Its not that there are internal problems in the family but shift in priorities especially from my side. Studies have lowered  the amount of playing time but still I could have found out time for this. I did not utilise the holidays to the fullest once again. 

So this feeling brought an end to a rather ordinary weekend for me. 

But with the hope that next day always brings fresh challenges and opportunities to be happy and sad both I enter into the first monday of this year.

A THOUGHT : Life gives us ample opportunities to succeed but they are hidden amidst our failures. We have to just find out them like a hide and seek game because behind every success story there is an unheard failure story. So dont be afraid of failures as no will care about it but listen to your success only  :)

Wednesday, 31 December 2014

Learning new year eve lesson

Yesterday was a different kind of new year eve for me. The whole day  went on thinking that this is also gonna be the same just like every year. Everyone making plans to go out at clubs , resorts , banquets , hanging out with friends and me same like everytime sitting in front of a television screen (my favourite passtime :P). It seriously hurts if you are not a part of the above mentioned. No such friends with whom you can hangout , no clubbing or partying because you are not an alcoholic as your FRIENDS  want you to. It all hurt you from inside but  this time around it was different. There were few questions which balanced all the stuff and those were the questions I asked myself on this new year eve..Does       everyone know why we celebrate this occasion. ? Is everyone celebrating ? Are those people on the footpath who are struggling to cover their shivering bodies in chilly delhi nights celebrating ? 
These just made me move away from all my inner pains and made me ponder over the fact that can we just spend the money of all clubbing activities or our partying on giving them clothes and quilts.Can we just help them. 
What can be a nicer way than starting a  fresh year with a noble work. Atleast its better than riding the danger of drunken driving.
They never complain that they cant celebrate new year , atleast I haven't heard it of , all they want is a shelter to keep themselves warm. These people showed me that my inner pains of not going on a party or hanging out are just so very small in front of their but still no complaints. Lesson I learned is that we tend to aggravate small things so much that the larger picture (in this case to analyse the goods you did and carry the same and also the wrongs which you did and make amends for the coming year)  is totally ignored. The very purpose is defeated. 
At last it was a different new year eve for me this time around. And yes I was no more sad to miss on the parties rather I am happy that I have missed them.